I'm pretty sure there's a whole thing about it being up to you when you forgive someone. Or if you do. I don't think you have to, or anything. And I don't think you need to feel pressured to either.
I've never cared about being a good or fair person before is all. [but you spend a couple weeks around people and they're way more forgiving than you and you go well fuck]
Is it worth it? [...] I talked to Nico about it and he said that it was like, fine if I didn't ever, but he was gonna try, and I don't want to. I just want to be pissed.
[but then she feels guilty for being pissed when she's the only one!! it sucks!!]
I mean... yeah. If you want to try, you can. If you don't, you don't. [ big shrug. ] It's up to you whether you do or you don't, and you don't need to get permission to forgive or not. Like, people might pressure you but you can tell them to get lost.
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I'm pretty sure there's a whole thing about it being up to you when you forgive someone. Or if you do. I don't think you have to, or anything. And I don't think you need to feel pressured to either.
It's up to you, ultimately.
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I've never cared about being a good or fair person before is all. [but you spend a couple weeks around people and they're way more forgiving than you and you go well fuck]
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Yeah?
It's kinda tiring when you're really mad about something. But I think it's worth it.
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but she sighs]
Is it worth it? [...] I talked to Nico about it and he said that it was like, fine if I didn't ever, but he was gonna try, and I don't want to. I just want to be pissed.
[but then she feels guilty for being pissed when she's the only one!! it sucks!!]
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[ nimona like uhhh but maybe i do not wish to. ]
I mean... yeah. If you want to try, you can. If you don't, you don't. [ big shrug. ] It's up to you whether you do or you don't, and you don't need to get permission to forgive or not. Like, people might pressure you but you can tell them to get lost.